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What was I thinking?
Melody Kinser
Nov 13, 2008

I am now a member of facebook.

A few weeks ago I was trying to track down a friend to let him know my whereabouts since we hadn’t communicated (and we usually do so by e-mail) since I arrived here.

I know what city he lives in, I had heard he changed jobs (but I checked that newspaper Web site anyway) and then I went to good ol’ Mr. Google. That’s when my journey began. I entered into a world unknown to me. And, mind you, I was most cautious in doing so.

I am now a member of facebook. Now, for the record, I have never been into a chat room (don’t even know how to get there) and I had no desire to start a myspace page.

Here I am — and not at a tender age either — being asked to accept as “friends” former co-workers and people I went to high school with — and that was more than a few years ago.

Surprisingly enough, facebook isn’t just for the 18 to 25 set as I had thought.

After having been inundated with “friends,” I now find myself wondering: What was I thinking? A positive to this scenario is you have to confirm a “friend” before he or she is allowed in to your page (I guess that’s what it’s called).

I’ve always been of the opinion that those who need to know where I am do — because I’ve shared that information at my discretion.

The Internet has certainly changed any chance for anonymity, especially when you’re working in a public venue.

On the plus side, I’m learning about some young reporters I worked with, catching up on their new careers and one recently had a baby.

And, as the Logan (W.Va.) High School Class of 1974 gears up for its 35th reunion next year, it’s good to get notes from some classmates I lost touch with after graduation.

My “profile” is pretty boring — this goes back to the what I’m willing to expose about myself. Those who know me well will agree that I’m not modest and I will ramble on and on if given the opportunity.

I still haven’t totally convinced myself that participating in facebook is a good move, simply because it’s unchartered territory for this old girl.

It is, however, a new adventure of sorts. But, given my pick, I’ll take the telephone anytime.

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Facebook is easily made very private, and you can set up your account to work for you so you don’t get thousands of “Add me to your friend’s list” requests.  MySpace is exactly the same!  I’m newer to Facebook than MySpace, but both can be easily privatized!! Just go to the settings or account tabs for that particular site, and it should guide you along!

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Rene Seiders of Mechanicsville
Dec. 2, 2008 at 05:16 PM
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